Hellooo,
There is something interesting my coach pointed out the other day. it is how people when discussing and arguing over the chat, they are way much more furious and aggressive. i thought about it for a while, and it is really true. people tend to get annoyed and attack the other person pretty fast while discussing in chat. i tried to trace the reasons to the following points, i didn’t think those point are exclusive, nor i think that all of them completely true:
1- Since u don’t see the other person’s face, u don’t know his reaction, maybe if you are starting saying something bad, and u see his reaction as getting annoyed, maybe u will (not-intentionally) ease down a bit so you can win him over
2- another theory, maybe by face expression you describe these words, and since there is no face expressions, u have to use explicit and agressive words to show annoyance instead of just a angry look.
3- people may get much more couragous when not seeing the other person, because the other person can’t interrupt you while chatting, nor he can scream or do anything, so people fin dit easier to insult others when other r not looking.
4- i doubt this is true, but i am leaving it as a theory, maybe when someone reads the other person view, he misunderstand it, or at least connects it to an agressive attitude, like u can say the same thing in agressive and nice attitude, and maybe people when reading stuff, they tend to attach the agressive mode to it, so it sounds more simulating for anger than normal was intended to.
i can’t think of other theories now, gimme you feedback on those. but be gentle. (bala ghafiya)



















he elune stop doing this! I hate to keep things bottled up inside me so do not think that I was holding a grudge for u here! man do not erase it too! it is something to remember! I do have some moments were am forced to say everything inside me, do u remember the email I sent to all of u 3 years ago? from bugs bunny with love??? I still have it and each time I read it I burst out laughing! it is something to remember! shosh! the gym center I go to has a coach that tells me: when u are playing tough just remember anything that bothers u and u’ll feel comfort when u are done! I was missing my gym sessions the last week so it seems I did it here!
elune muaaaaaaaaaaa just cheer up no need to go depressed again! I was wrong to say that u did nothing the way i did! and u were holding back not to attack me! I was a little stupid here! and I even went again my own principles. u are the best man u thought well be4 doing any stupid thing like what I did! bs if u want to avenge what I said just do it! I won’t be mad at u!